It’s Sunday morning and I’m feeling unusually positive. I exude an assuredness, like a boxer before a title fight who knows that things are going to work in his favor.
I send my girlfriend a text suggesting that she calls over at around 6:30 this evening. Yup, my girlfriend. Not a girl I’m seeing or that girl I’m dating: proper girlfriend. The plan is simple -dinner, wine and a movie.
In 2016 Sunday’s were often bleak, lonesome affairs; just me and a dreary monologue in my head. But count down from 10, turn the page, add a lady and Voila! Everything is better in the New Year!
First though: things need to get done. I tidy my room. Stray coins go back in the jar, opened books are shut and slotted back onto the bookcase, small mounds of clothes are placed in the laundry basket, the floor is swept, the shelves are wiped . When I’m done the room appears to be waiting.
Then I begin working on my next blog post. I read what I’ve written so far and it does nothing for me. Maybe I’m just groggy after last night’s beers. I try to force something but I can’t stop looking at my phone as if it has the answers. Eventually, I turn my phone off and toss it on the bed behind me. I press on for about forty-five minutes or so and then I stop.
I get up and turn my phone back on and wait for a reply to come chiming through. It doesn’t arrive.
No matter. Keep moving.
I go for a walk. I cross the bridge to Getxo and turn right. After about thirty minutes I feel last night’s cigarettes taxing my lungs and last night’s beers swilling in my stomach. I pass some car showrooms and come to an urban no-man’s land of huge dormant industrial complexes and slate grey sky. I try to avoid looking at my phone but it’s like a loose tooth I can’t help tonguing. There’s still no reply. I let out a sigh and turn back. The clouds begin to unburden themselves.
I feel the grimness trying to slip inside me. I pick up the pace in an attempt to keep ahead of the negative thoughts.
I’m tired by the time I get back to the apartment. I sit down and count the positives: I’ve tidied my room, I’ve done a bit of writing,I’ve taken a healthy walk and there is no reason to believe my girlfriend isn’t coming over. It’s still going to be a good day.
I get back up. I put my phone on the table and set about preparing a lasagna. I heat the pans and chop onions, mushrooms and garlic. I stop every now and then to check my phone. It’s nearly five o’clock and still no word. I carry on. The mince is nicely browned.
Ding, Ding. I wipe my hands, take a breath and pick up my phone. Three messages.
I’m feeling worse than yesterday.
I’m not going to come to your apartment today
I hope you had A PERFECT WEEKEND
It’s like a punch in the stomach. I remain calm and respond quickly.
No problem. Is everything alright? Anyway You’re doing the right thing by staying in and getting some rest.
It’s a nice, measured text. I’m a nice guy; That’s what all the girls tell me when they’re dumping me.
I get back to cooking, but all attention to detail is gone: I just want a plate of something. I go through the motions while my mind paces. What did she mean by A PERFECT WEEKEND? Am I just being paranoid or does her message carry an undercurrent of bitterness? Have I done something wrong? Why hasn’t she responded yet? These questions chip away at me over the coming hours.
I eat a lopsided lasagna. I wash my clothes.
Eventually, as I get ready for bed, I get a message. But it’s only Dee.
Researchers reckon that tomorrow is the most depressing day of the year.
Ha! I turn off the light and lay down on the bed, feeling defeated.
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